Christians shouldn’t be afraid of Gay Pride.

So yesterday my online world is all a-Twitter with news that Obama has officially named June LGBT Pride month.  I heard this news almost entirely from other Christians who were concerned about what this news means for them and their families.  I saw things like, “I’m disturbed,” and “Obama is pandering to the left again”, and “it’s a sad day for traditional families.”  Even though I’m a heterosexual wife and mother, solidly in the world of mainstream Christianity and living an oh-so-traditional family life, I still find reactions like those of my contemporaries disturbing.

I wanted very badly to respond to all of the comments I was reading as fully as possible, but Twitter’s 140 character limit was painfully constrictive.

So today I write a blog post, and I hope it reaches the right eyes.

Should Christians be disturbed by the Gay Rights and Pride movement?  Should we reject our American President if he affirms it?

No.

My reasons?

  1. Assuming that God “does not intend for anyone to be Gay”, the argument that God is offended by living a gay life only holds water for those who wish to please God.  America isn’t made entirely of Christians, and those who disagree with the tenants of our beliefs should still be protected by societal laws while they lead the lives they wish for themselves.
  2. A gay person being protected while living their life with their partner and family does not impugn on my right to live my traditional life with my “traditional” family.
  3. No matter what one’s reason, when you have a negative emotional reaction to a gay person being happy and proud of their life, what they read into that is that you don’t want them to be happy.  When we, as Christians, say we are “disturbed by”; “upset at”; or “disgusted with” our President showing fidelity to his gay constituency the message the world gets is that we Do Not Like The Gays.  This is killing our ability to show them God’s love.  I cannot be okay with that.
  4. No matter how legitimate one’s complaint may be, when one makes a public declaration as a Christian, one must consider the affect that declaration will have on perceptions of Christ and God.  Our first duty as Christians is NOT to eradicate sin or make sinning more difficult, but to demonstrate God’s love.  We should be showing the value of true discipleship, the fruit of good lives, the happiness and transcendent joy that comes from knowing that Jesus calls us friends.  Showing disgust with sin as a primary reaction negates, in the eyes of those who hear it, our greater message.  It says, to put it plainly, “you’re not good enough for me.”  Is that really the message God would have us get across?
  5. When making a public declaration our concern must not only be with what we want to say but with how it is heard.  You may want to say you’re disappointed, but if what people HEAR is “I hate Gays”, perhaps you should share your disappointment privately and say, “I don’t hate gays” instead.

Christianity looks really selfish at times like these.  We look as we need to be protected from sin and we’re offended that more people aren’t thinking about OUR needs, instead of the needs of our gay neighbors.  If we are truly Christian, then we know that Jesus is our strength and our shield.  We don’t need to be afraid.  Our fearful reaction to gay pride shows a lack of faith.

And that is what I wanted to say.

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